Be You. Be True.

National Coming Out Day means a lot for so many people, and I wanted to share briefly why it is important to me.

Until I was around 27, I was not out as a gay man at work or to my family. Since being honest and open with both coworkers and my family, I feel more comfortable at work and in my personal life.

I have experienced greater success because I no longer have to hide a significant part of who I am. I want to encourage that individual who feels they must hide to stop hiding and bring us ALL of who they are. Inclusion is not about “agreeing with” a particular difference. It is about realizing that everyone is unique and that difference provides opportunity: an opportunity to learn and grow, to reach better conclusions, and to meet people that bring new perspectives and experiences.

I invite you to read my blog The Power of Authenticity and to see the article Smashing the Lavender Ceiling: Inside The LGBT World Of CRE for more on why this matters to me.

Finally, if you want to talk to someone about your personal coming out journey, I’m all ears. You will always have a safe zone for discussion with me.

Be well. Lead on.

Adam

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